Some women view asking a man for help as a taboo, akin to invading his privacy by going into his wallet or touching his money. They believe in giving men the autonomy to choose whether to offer help or not. Despite not explicitly requesting assistance, many women secretly hope and wait for men to take the initiative and offer their support. Women appreciate and value gestures of assistance from men, seeing it as a significant act of care and consideration. Taking on a woman's problems without her having to ask is seen as a meaningful gesture in her eyes.